Refine yourself book by Abeeha Mughal princess..

                        Refine yourself

1. Your conscience

2. Self-discovery

      3. Positive and negative thinking

      4. What people will say:

      5. Solution to every problem

      6. Merits:

      7. Career

      8. All is for good

.     9.Objections

      10. The power of belief

     11. To ignore

    12. Stay calm

1. Your conscience :

                                                                                A person has two faces, one is inside and the other is outside, everyone can see the outside, but no one knows what is going on inside. You know sometimes good things come to mind and sometimes bad things now it is up to you whether you want to think good things or bad things.

Here everyone will have the same question that if we cannot control the thoughts that enter our mind, then how can we think well and not enslave our mind and also bring it to the right path.

First of all, it has been seen that whenever we do something bad, elders say that Satan has entered it, but this happens only sometimes. Can't stop it but one solution is to control your conscience and not listen to it and the main thing is that when you know that it is bad like

                          Telling lies, not praying, not fasting, doing bad things to others for no reason, annoying your parents, talking to them loudly, not remembering God, thinking negatively all the time, spreading hatred, making excuses in everything. find etc.

So you can give yourself a reason not to do this bad thing, like if I told a lie, I will have to tell 100 more lies to hide it, if I don't pray, I will be away from God, if I don't fast. I will have a very bad situation in the end, if I harass my parents, God will punish me in this world

If I keep thinking bad about others, how will I be able to absorb the beautiful moments of life. If I keep hating others, others will also hate me. So what's the point of living in a world where everyone hates you? Is

And the biggest injustice that we do to ourselves is that we look for excuses in everything. If we continue like this, all our work will remain incomplete and life will become dull. One gets used to this thing and we become lazy. Whatever goes on inside of you, you find the reason why I am doing this work and what will I get from it. You also reward yourself. can give

Self-discovery

Qasim Ali Shah says that a person has two births, one when he enters this world and the other. Birth when he realizes himself

For this reason, many people become rebels, withdraw from the world, due to which they harm only themselves and no one else. In this chaotic world, man does not have time to give himself and that world. He keeps getting worried by thinking about things

One starts believing in their words and then becomes like them

A world resides within a human being where his good, bad, success, failure, fear, fear, dream, disappointment, love, friendship, relationship, his life, silence, defeat, victory, goal, desire, emotion, sadness. , happiness is all the love and affection that one should give to oneself is behind receiving from others 99% of people in this world live the same life depending on fate, money, honor, fame and appreciation. They run behind, and then in their company we also become like that. They are earning 30,000 or 40,000 per month after obtaining the same degree, but we can earn more than that. They are also like us, they are not from another planet

The fault is not ours but the environment around us. People who don't let us think big, make fun of us, we start depending on them. We are the average of the 5 people we live among. They are able to think more and more, they distance themselves from small things, and start thinking big.

But slowly everything gets better, then the whole world forces you to think small. Thorns bite, loved ones get separated, best friends go far away, pain increases, parents don't understand you, siblings don't respect you, everyone starts running away from you.

But when this journey is over, a new morning dawns, you become your own, everyone wants to talk to you, the world comes into your hands, hard work pays off, months of fights, quarrels, hatreds end. are

New people come into your life, but by then you get used to everything, learn to take care of yourself, make God your own, your tears then work,

And make you shine all over, the world longs to talk to you, success welcomes you

Everyone is ready to take your autograph, you spend a lot of time talking to yourself, so you raise your head with pride, your parents put their hands on your head, by finding yourself, your inner being becomes yours, they want to talk to you. becomes addicted, every problem gets solved by itself, work becomes addictive, and this addiction lasts forever, those who used to push you yesterday and you wanted to talk to them, today they are bored. .

Now the decision is in your hands, live life like 99% people or live like 1% people. Human thought is a powerful thing

You can achieve everything you set your mind to. Of course you have nothing, but every day and night you say to yourself:

I have everything

I'm very happy

I am healthy

I have found many loving people in my life

Every dream and wish has been fulfilled

And today I am living a very successful life

And then you will start seeing changes in your life the next day.

3. Positive and negative thoughts:

There are two types of thoughts in our mind, one is good i.e. positive and the other is bad i.e. negative. Our mind focuses on more bad things, it becomes negative about everything, but by doing this we start living a troubled life.

By thinking like this, you never understand life and only worries surround you, and on the other hand there are people who are positive, think good about everything, whatever problems they have, they get rid of them instantly. They come up with solutions, they are active everywhere

If you fail or fall behind in something, try again. Such people change others along with them. There are big people in his company.

They speak well to everyone, they don't bother anyone for their own reasons.

Such people are independent, take their own life decisions,

Understands life very well, and fulfills big goals. They stay away from negative people

Why does this happen ? What is your opinion about something?

With good thinking, you can decorate your life and that of your future generations as well.

Our mind keeps thinking about something. Try to engage yourself in some work, it should not be an ordinary work but a great work, it can be a dream of your life.

Spend more time learning. Don't give your mind a chance to think bad about anything. Work on yourself so much that someone puts a sword on your neck, but if he asks for forgiveness, forgive him, and think well about it, connect every bad thought with a good thought and move on.

If you sit thinking that such and such a person did not respond to my message and did not see my status, then you will not be able to succeed. be beneficial for

4. What people will say:

                                 

It happens in our life that we keep thinking about what people will say. But what difference does it make to us what people say and don't say? Some people make us depressed by telling too much. It includes our parents, relatives, friends, teachers and people around us. At least parents should understand what their children want and what are the talents in it. The easiest thing in this world is to point the finger at others and the most difficult thing is to point the finger at oneself. Why do we think that people will hurt us a lot, and this is what happens.

But we have no right to look into the lives of others.And if someone is telling you things for no reason, it is easy for you to ignore him and move on. In this day and age, people have so much time that they gossip about others, but nothing is achieved. Just think for a moment that when we make a decision by ourselves, others interfere in it, so you have to congratulate yourself in this situation, you have to fight your own battle, the first step to success is failure. Stand up again, fall down again, stand up again, keep doing it, fly stubbornly. close your ears Keep your eyes on the destination.

And let the people speak .There is no problem, they have nothing else to do, but you have a lot of work, don't you? Now the world has to know you, recognize you, follow you. Try to be like you. Life never ends. Start it again from a new beginning. Live life according to you. Don't be a slave to others so that they can make you cry whenever they want and make you laugh whenever they want. No one has that much power, but if you do, grab the remote control of your life and start living according to yourself. Do whatever you want according to yourself.

Don't use the brain that God has given you like a computer. People will automatically become crazy about you. Give yourself up for a few months now. Be your own mother, father, sister, brother, friend, cousin, teacher. Love yourself and your dreams too.This life is not coming back, so live it to the fullest. Don't waste any moment.

5. A solution to every problem:

                          

                       Here I will ask you this question, can you solve all your problems? If yes, that's great, but if not, listen: Take half an hour aside and look at this problem, discuss it and ask your mind how it will be solved. Answers will come from within you. You start looking at them differently and come up with different solutions. The solution will definitely come out. Create courage in yourself. If you are lonely, then there is no problem, assure yourself that this time will also pass. And remember God with a true heart. And fear it. Present your every problem before God. And give time to God as much as possible, it will give you peace and also solve the problem. And yes, if a person has shown your heart, then see that maybe he was forced and hurt you unknowingly and he did not know. Think for a few moments that there must be a reason and always keep a smile on your face. This keeps our heart at peace and also the heart.

And every problem has a solution, you just have to find it. Keep trying, maybe you will find a solution to this problem and find out the reason. Allah Ta'ala loves us more than seventy mothers, He cannot see us in pain. If we explain our problems to him, he will surely listen to us and the solution will be known. Just be patient. Stop thinking bad about other people and start understanding the reality of life. Accept his difficulties and troubles. Start loving your life.

When you do this, you will solve your problem. It all depends on you, your health, life, wealth, and fame are in your hands.

6. Advantages:

           Every human being has good qualities and flaws as well, no human being is so perfect that one can say that there is no flaw in him. What quality is there in you? And are you working on them? If you recognize your own qualities, others will be influenced by you. Are you very friendly, or are you funny, or read very well, or speak very well, have good body language, have good opinions about everyone. Every human being has some talent or quality.

If a person studies very well, he attracts others towards him, wins the heart of teachers, many children, relatives cannot remain influenced by him. Or a person paints very well and becomes very close to nature. A person's tone is very sweet, he quickly makes others crazy about him. A person keeps himself busy and acquires knowledge all day long. He solves all problems very quickly, always active. A person respects elders and has good views about everyone in his heart.

And you must have seen that if you have any quality or skill in you, you can use it a lot. You can be any of them. Put your skills to work in a better way. And stop worrying about small things. Look at a person who recites a naat or sings a song, there is a pain in his voice that affects other people, God has given his voice a color. Or cooking delicious meals, making yourself successful, or planting plants and taking care of them in your free time, doing something with passion, reading, writing or playing a game you like, what you do in yourself. it looks nice ? Think about who you are.

  7.. Career

Every person after completing his studies thinks about his career and he fights for it, but here is the thought why we are wasting our time for no reason if once we know our skills. If we know what we are used to and what skills we have, then we are not too serious about our career. This means that we can use our skills and improve them to make them a source of employment. To improve our career, we invest millions of rupees and study. That we will get a good job, but why don't we think that we have immense energy inside us, we can do anything. So why work under someone? Do not do it wrong. We can also start our own business. But here the question will be that how can we start our business. So it is very easy. Can you recite a good naat? can sing a song Painting, designing something, writing something, animating others, or cooking great food. You can also earn from social media. Explaining someone well etc.

You can start your own business with it. In the beginning, there will be problems, there will be difficulties, there will be rejection from all sides, you will hear things day and night, and then gradually your business will spread. Then you will sit comfortably and the money will come to your account. But if you keep thinking, this work will never happen. Our mind needs a reason to move forward.If you start even a small work, then soon your name will spread everywhere and then success will be your destiny.

All these wounds are bunches of flowers on the chest

Let us be crazy, crazy is good.

Some business principles are:

Be stubborn and don't listen to anyone and ignore people

Make day and night one and even if you have to stay up all night for it

Don't avoid

Always give full credit to your teachers, parents, upline who are working day and night for you whenever you see progress in your work.

Never give up, you will have to walk alone, you will have to chew on thorns, you will have to hold embers in your hands, your heart will also be very wounded, the weather will not support you, everyone will say you are crazy. If this is happening to you, then congratulations, you are a successful person. And very bad success is in your life.

  Never leave your side in the ups and downs of life, don't deceive yourself, fulfill your dreams wholeheartedly, be honest, make God your partner. Always be grateful to good people and friends.

You are alone in this world, you will go alone, then why are you afraid of being alone.

All the people who are rich and great in the world were not always rich. He worked hard. Tried, people pushed them out of the house, company and gatherings. No one would sit near them. But today everyone wants to be like them. Because he never left himself alone, he did what he had to do. And today he is ruling the hearts of people.

For him :

1. Write down what you want to achieve in the next 10 years and think how to achieve it in 1 year.

2. Start comforting yourself, you are not the only one who is doing all this, others have also gone through it to get here.

3. Sleep every night thinking that I have a lot of money, I can buy everything, I am completely free financially.

4. The most important thing is to write down the date of these dreams by when it will be achieved.

Those dreams that used to shine as dreams in your eyes will come out as reality. And that one day when you will be earning crores in a day. Think big

8. All is for good

                                             There are many moments in our life that make us very disappointed. Sometimes they are worried by what their parents say and sometimes they are ignored by people. Sometimes when you get a low score in Pippers, sometimes when you fight with someone, sometimes when you make friends, then the friend moves away, sometimes when you give your heart to someone, then he betrays you, you get so upset over small things that you commit suicide. Many moments pass like this, but it has a bad effect on our mind, and then we start thinking bad, and when we think bad, that's why our mind attracts things. is, and then what happens is what we think.

Yes, some people's words actually lead us to despair, but stop! Can you ask yourself that we are only wasting our time by arguing with them, when the time comes, they get their answer and they become silent.

Let me give you my example. At first I was very fond of getting good marks in college, I thought why not top the whole class, I took it and then I worked hard day and night, I started studying for sixteen hours, all They said that I am crazy for doing anything, but I was silent because I knew that I would top it and keep doing it. Then I had no consciousness. Yes, she used to sleep properly, 6 or 7 hours a day. More than that, my sleep did not go further. Mama, papa used to scold but I used to smile and find my success in front of me. And so it happened. Moments, days, months of hard work paid off and I got the top marks among 50 to 70 children. They were 75 marks out of nearly 100 which belonged to no one.

At first I used to cry but after that I became proud of myself, I had started from zero and then by getting good marks I made myself a habit of hard work. But the story is not so much, life continued to give me opportunities and I continued to raise flags of success in every field. Then whether it is study or career or any field of life.

I understood the game. Life is returning to my feet today, because I can understand all of them, what a person does and what he thinks. And then I realized how much this world needs me and then I worked on myself. He started improving himself by keeping everyone aside. And now I can motivate others and I have many qualities that I have recognized. Whatever happens in our life is for good. Those who called me crazy yesterday praise me today.

So what are you waiting for, people's job is only to speak. Be silent and leave what happens to Allah. Connect with it from the heart. And always keep a smile on your face.

  Whatever God does in our life, He does it for good, there must be some reason for it, if you are also stuck in a problem, give yourself some time and see how to solve it. No power in the world can stop you from moving forward. You yourself are the stones of your own path that hold small problems and give it the name of life. Life is a beautiful journey, learn to enjoy every moment.

Now is the time to change

  It will be good if you change yourself

But if time changes, it will be very painful.

9. Oppositions

 

In the low moments of life, there are times when everyone is against us, they think that what we are doing is totally wrong and our parents can have the biggest hand in it. Parents think for our good but do not understand our feelings and start scolding us morning and evening but we should keep our heart and mind present and think whether that work is for us or not.

If it continues like this, we can never do anything wrong. We should not think that everyone is celebrating. Look, every person has the right to live his life. So it is poisonous, he will have to face failure. And if there are many oppositions at the beginning of a work, then understand that you are going to get success. And if you face these oppositions quietly, congratulations, success will surely kiss your feet

For example, if you want to start a business, you started it as soon as you progressed a little, you started to get success, but at the same time, the market of opposition became hot. Here you have two options either leave your business or fulfill whatever dreams you had while starting your business. A few months of hard work will improve your whole life, if you don't believe, try it.

Hard work so quiet

Make your success loud.

The bad and successful people of the world have become successful today out of these oppositions.

10. The power of belief

The evil power of all in this world is the power of belief. If you believe that I can do it, then you will be able to do it. Bad easily overcomes obstacles from bad to bad, even if there are people's words or oppositions, leaving a loved one or whatever. Everything is possible with the power of belief.If I talk about myself, when there were oppositions in my life, my friends had gone far away from me, my parents were not understanding me.

Then the only thing that brought me from darkness to light was the power of belief, because of this power I was able to win in every field and raise the budget in life. If you also want to do something, remember to be your own good friend. And believe that it will not stop you, then no matter how much others disrespect you, you will still be able to smile.

.Others will be surprised, they will call you crazy, but let others listen and see. This is the power that made Al Musk the richest man in the world. The one who made Mark Zuckerberg the owner of Facebook, the one who made Einstein a scientist and the one who made Steve Jobs the owner of the company .And the power of this belief enlightened the world. The hard work is just to start and then slowly as you spend your time it becomes a complete game.

 11.  to ignore :

       You must have seen the people of the world have one thing in common that they take everyone's words to heart and then waste their time and energy on it. They are harming themselves

And then if the same thing happens with successful people, they easily ignore it and move on because they think badly and they take bad action. They don't give a damn and are free from worrying about what others are thinking about them. Consider your own life. Just think that if you ignore these things and move forward, you will save a lot of time and energy and be happy. are. You just have to give yourself some time. When you fully understand your life, it becomes a lot of fun.

12. stay calm

In this world, there are many problems in our life, work, study, career, bills, especially in everything, for which we are extremely worried. For whom we get extremely worried, we accept it as fate, but have you ever thought how easily these problems can be solved, if you give yourself some time to look at the problem carefully, it will be solved in no time. If you ask your mind, it will answer it. There is no problem in the world that cannot be solved. Our mind needs peace to solve this problem.

But if you keep it tangled up in things and things, it will never perform well. Bad deeds do not happen like that, but there are secrets hidden behind them. A person asked an intellectual what is the worst treasure in this world, then the intellectual replied that the worst treasure in this world is buried in the soil which is Many people have new ideas and if they follow them, they can conquer the world

So you see, staying calm is an art that only a few people have and the funny thing is that only those people are successful. So what are you waiting for, this is a small action that can change your life.